I don't really get it plainsman. You make some great suggestions and I'm sure also identify a lot of common problems for what is a particularly demanding game. However the hotfixes and bug reports from Asobo should be enough confirmation for anyone regarding the constant CTDs and various other issues the game has had.
I'm glad it's been working for you, but I've gone through three systems personally where it hasn't worked. They have all been great systems and the two I run now work flawlessly since the latest hotfix. I'm not talking about the general bugs in game either, I'm really talking about stability which was an early deal breaker for me.
I'm glad I could use the past tense earlier as well, I really do think that the vast majority of CTD bugs have been worked out. I'm now an extra 50 hours in since the latest hotfix with no changes to my system and also no CTDs.
The rest of the bugs will get worked out in time, but if you look at how long it has taken to fix relatively serious bugs in the past, it's no wonder people get annoyed.
For example, when I bought the game, rudder control had been broken through a patch. It took two subsequent patches for it to be worked out properly. This kind of thing just shouldn't have happened, and shouldn't be left unchecked for as long as it was.
Anyway, it's not like I don't like the game, I do, but it has taken a year to get here and for most other games, this kind of stuff would have been worked out in beta testing.