Hello Ace_Dueces,
Welcome,,,,,let's see,,,you're post has me going a different directions and I've got something for each,,,,so in no particular order I'll try to cover your concerns,,,,,at least get the ball rolling,,,you will have to do the rest.
Save this link to your favs and look through it as time allows.
It is THE source for answers to most of the questions you have now and will have later.
http://www.faa.gov/airports_airtraff.../AIM/index.htm
Not being as wise guy here but you need to spell phraseology correctly in any subsequent searches to get the most out of them.
As far as on-line "simming" goes you are in as good a place as any to start right now. We hold monthly events that are about as laid back as you can get and not fall backward..LOL.
You can look high and low throughout this forum and see examples of what you want to know,,but most of it is at another site I'll give you the link to,,,that's hosted by one of our moderators here at FlightSim N3306TX,,,Mike Maddox......Mike takes a bow...;-).
http://home.comcast.net/~tmaddox3/
Take some time and look at all of the links and info he has compiled. I've been a flight simmer for almost thirty years and I use it and the links inside for reference often.
Your welcome to come out and join us by registering for the next event that you have time for,,,,or catch some of us on the FSHost server 76.125.25.59.
We don't use Gamespy,,,,and I have uninstalled mine.
I not speaking badly of it ,,,I just don't find any use for it.
Go here
http://www.chocolatesoftware.com/fshost/ and download and install FSHostSpy.
Perfectly safe and free,,,,no worries. You're running FSX so you'll need to pick up FSHostClient 1.1 while you're there. That will allow you to join FSHost sessions with others in FSX as well as FS2004 and some still are running FS2002. All this stuff is covered at Mike's website.
After a little research and a couple of outings with the "Good Times Gang" here,,you could jump in the deep end at VATSIM and one of the many Virtual Airlines on the internet and take it to whatever level you want.
And so ends yet another of the never ending sessions of long answers to short questions by yours truly....LOL.....I hope it helps.
Best regards,
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