Making Your Simming Personal

By Ron Blehm (27 April 2005)

When was the last time one of your simulated flights actually MEANT SOMETHING to you? I don’t mean that it earned you more hours at the virtual airline or that you were completing some task assigned by a stranger somewhere – like playing the children’s game “Simon Says.” I mean, when was the last time you felt that you were getting closer to a personal friend by flying your sim? When was the last time you had a name and face come immediately to mind when you heard the International News Headlines?

I’m sure there are many out there who have people you are in regular e-mail contact with. You conduct your simming or virtual airline business and otherwise your life moves on…but that’s not really feeling a personal involvement in their lives – that’s not letting them find out a little bit about what you are really about. If your hobby seems somehow a bit mechanical and impersonal I hope to provide you with a little hope in this short article.

Unfortunately I really don’t have any magic answers as to how to get pilots to be more involved in your airline or other flying projects, but can only tell you that the more personal something is for you the more you tend to take away from the experience. (So if you are not involved, GET INVOLVED!) Going with a group of friends to cheer on your favorite sports team tends to be more rewarding than going by yourself to watch an event you really don’t care about – or scrubbing toilets for that matter. Heck, even having your car break down with a group of friends is better then being stranded on the roadside alone!

So to that end, let me tell you about some of my friends: Every month we all “get together” (sometimes live, sometimes not) to share a common flight simming experience. (See logo.) This is not some museum tour guide saying, “On your right is a painting by the late 18th century artist Frank. Next is a work from the Benedictine Monks at Lyon, France…” This experience is generally meaningful or personal for one of us…and after we all repeat the flight, it has become meaningful to all of us. This bond that we develop is strong and lasting: “After about 900 e-mails a year, I realized that I talk with you all more than the fellow in the next office at work!” When you celebrate the birthdays of kids you’ve never met…when you acknowledge religious holidays of groups you are not a member of…when you are concerned for the economy of nations you’ve never actually been to before…that, is when your simming has become personal. And that, my friend, is when you move from, “Playing around on the computer,” to actually having fun!

When an Aussie lands at your home airport…that’s fun!
When a friend of yours visits the same mission village you were in 30 years ago …that’s fun!
When a European sails over your South American home…that’s fun!
When friends visit your favorite vacation spot…that’s fun!
When friends from a half-dozen different countries fly supplies in – as was done for your own parents…that’s fun!
When you can watch other simmers struggle through your own backyard…that’s fun!
When what is important to you becomes important to others…that is what is called gratification! And when your hobby leaves you feeling gratified…you have achieved something more than mastery of a computer game!
We at www.toomuchfs.com hope that you are getting the most out of your simming experiences.

Ron Blehm
cubflounder@www.toomuchfs.com

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